tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561337082281128243.post591297877254353106..comments2023-03-14T11:10:21.785-04:00Comments on Work in progress: TrannydarDanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16975813317460009585noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561337082281128243.post-49266872255076553282010-10-20T16:12:37.952-04:002010-10-20T16:12:37.952-04:00@ Amy: I don't see any reason why anyone would...@ Amy: I don't see any reason why anyone would think that you're anything but a woman. My point was that the general public isn't actually looking for us anywhere and if you look like any other GG they won't assume otherwise. That's what I took your line to mean, sorry if I misunderstood.<br /><br /><br /> Most of my readers probably know of your blog but I'm happy to send those that don't your way! Hint taken! :-D<br /><br /><br /> You're right about word of a secret code or handshake getting out. We'd probably have to use the internet to spread the word, but then some troll would find out and the secret would be out!<br /><br /><br /> @ Angel: OMG! I can't believe that one of us would be so inconsiderate as to do such a thing! She had to see how horrified you were! She must have had too many drinks or something but I don't know if even that's a good enough excuse!<br /><br /> Dani xxxDanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16975813317460009585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561337082281128243.post-32040143119196093762010-10-18T12:56:31.634-04:002010-10-18T12:56:31.634-04:00Thanks for mentioning my post, wow! What I wrote, ...Thanks for mentioning my post, wow! What I wrote, however, wasn't meant in quite the fashion that you took it. I was telling my mother, in a roundabout way, that I blend in with the female population so well that nobody thinks I'm anything but a woman. As far as I know, anyway. Maybe they figure otherwise and don't let on, but for now I'll go on thinking the former. (And by the way, not everyone who reads your blog may know mine, so if you want to send them my way, a link will do nicely, nudge nudge wink wink.)<br /><br />As for the rest of your post, some people have said before that we need a secret code, or a sign, or something. Sounds great, but then what if some smart alec cisgendered people hear about the code (you know they will, if it becomes widespread enough for all transfolk to know it), and use it to "out" transgendered persons? What a dilemma. What to do, what to do...? In any case, you did the right thing. :)Amy K.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01731056254476935306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561337082281128243.post-13822703580357569852010-10-17T07:08:02.838-04:002010-10-17T07:08:02.838-04:00Hi, Melissa! I'm also suprised that it doesn&#...Hi, Melissa! I'm also suprised that it doesn't happen more often! 1:500 sounds a bit more accurate but I have to wonder if that statistic includes closeted individuals, who are likely a majority of the CD/TG/TS community. If not, than even that estimate is wrong! The old estimate of 1:10,000 is certainly wrong and was even when they first made it!<br /><br /><br /> Yes, I've thought about her and wondered those same things. I would've liked to have bought her a coffee, or a beer, or a glass of wine and chatted with her. I very much wanted to talk to her and it was difficult to resist the impulse to do so. Like you, I also didn't want to make her uncomfortable, and the store was very busy, being 5:00 PM on a Fri., I didn't want to run the risk of outing her. She was passing unnoticed and I wanted to keep it that way.<br /><br /> Dani xxxDanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16975813317460009585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561337082281128243.post-6258440758910518892010-10-16T23:00:17.853-04:002010-10-16T23:00:17.853-04:00I was in the grocery store one day, completely in ...I was in the grocery store one day, completely in male mode, and I saw an attractive tall blond woman, dressed very smartly in a pair of dark slacks, black patent loafers, a white open collar shirt, and tweed blazer. She had a page style haircut, that stopped just above her shoulders. Her face was kind of androgynous, and a bit acne scarred, but she still made a handsome woman. I knew she was trans the instant that I saw her. We made eye contact for a brief few seconds, but I said nothing, nor did I make any acknowledging gestures. The look in my eyes however, must have sent clues out to her, because a minute or two later as I crossed one of the pharmacy aisles, I saw her again, and she was looking directly into my eyes. It was a friendly, almost longing look. I wanted so much to approach her, and say something, but I didn't want to make her uncomfortable, so I just gave her one of those ever so slight smiles that you do almost just with your eyes, and went about my business. I never saw her again, but I thought about her weeks afterward. Wondering where she lived, what she did for a living, what her interests were. <br /><br />It's a wonder that it doesn't happen far more often. Original estimates put us at about 1:10,000 in the general population, but that was long before the internet age of information, when it was more like guess work. Today, some estimates put us at 1:500. <br /><br />Melissa XXMelissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04600684740584460891noreply@blogger.com